Gender Disappointment – Does The Color Blue Make YOU Blue?
Since my husband and I have two girls, we are always being asked about our future plans and whether or not we’re hoping for a boy next. Because we want several children, I am in no hurry to even out the gender score. However, I’d be lying if I were to say that it didn’t matter to me. Of course it matters! That’s not to say that I wouldn’t be thrilled with another little girl, but I would definitely be beside myself to finally have a son. It’s a part of motherhood that I haven’t experienced yet, and I’m really excited for the day when I can buy a Spiderman t-shirt, pick out blue bedding, and finally take the time to watch the movie “Cars.”
Although many moms are happy with all girls or all boys, there are plenty of women out there who really struggle with gender disappointment. Many moms hope for a little boy or girl – and end up with the opposite. Plenty of families try several times for a son or daughter, and end up with a house full of all boys or all girls. For those of you who struggle with feelings of disappointment over your child’s gender, you’re not alone. This article from ABC news is very interesting, and hopefully something you’ll find comfort in.
It’s a Boy? Some Moms Struggle With Disappointment [ABC News]
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